My engagement ceremony came to a surprise to everyone in the family. Even I was not invited. Simply put in words, we were not notified. My boyfriend’s parent, then, came over for a well, ‘meet-the-parents’ session. It was more like get-to-know everyone in the family.

By then, I was duly engaged to Abdul Rahim Bin Razali on 13th day of January 2006. 8 months had passed. During this period, a lot has taken place, misunderstanding, (which is rather common issue in a relationship), learning more about one another, each lifestyle, family background and upbringing and among other things. At the same time, we dote on each another more and more each loving day, connection and understanding. A bit of pros and cons that add up, somehow spice up our relationship.

As at today, 28th day of September 2006, I’ve 71 days of single-hood. The last time my cousin (who is celebrating his 17th birthday as I speak) did a check was exactly 90 days. Without me realizing it, 19 days had whizzed through me.

As time goes by, I could feel butterflies in my stomach. It may be a figure of speech but if it could literally happen, it would.

Preparation for my wedding has yet to take off. So much things pending since the day I got engaged. My parents especially my mother is pretty much excited than I am. Here I am, taking one day at a time.